Radio DJ Mister Cee(left) with Transsexual(right)

It has been all over your TV screens in light of Hot 97 radio DJ Mister Cee being arrested for allegedly receiving fellatio from a transsexual prostitute. This has had the Hip Hop and African American community in pretty much an uproar, boycotting the New York radio station because they “didn’t want f**gots on their speakers” or “it was so disrespectful to the late Notorious BIG” because Mister Cee was the executive producer on the Ready to Die album. But WHY does homosexuality or bisexuality among males have such a negative connotation with it?

Dustin from Real World Las Vegas

I watched an episode of Real World Las Vegas a few nights ago where one of the cast members had revealed to the viewers but not his fellow roommates that he was a Gay for Pay porn star, yet he did not consider himself bisexual. The discussion that the cast members had was that if a man has sex with another man, he is gay and that’s that. The former porn star, Dustin, while obviously uncomfortable praised to the high heavens how homophobic he seemed, which I found weird. I thought to myself, um didn’t I see another man’s penis in your mouth on a porn site literally 3 weeks ago, yet you would fight a man if he stared at you with your shirt off?

Sighs. Sweet baby Jesus.

Any who, there is truly a double standard to bisexuality when it comes to men and women. Women are usually more accepted in society when it comes to being bisexual or lesbian. With men, it’s either you are gay or straight, no in between. Why is this? This is particularly popular among African American men as well. I believe that due to such the negative feedback that is associated with being a bisexual individual, let alone a bisexual man, many individuals choose to keep their business private. Unfortunately we get what is called the ‘Down-Low’ man. He is married/committed to a woman, yet has sexual encounters with other men.

My personal opinion is that you like what you like. You cant help that. But once you start lying because of what others may say, that’s when you fuck up. If more men were openly bisexual there wouldn’t be so much drama when a man comes out and men like Mister Cee would not have to look for prostitutes to keep them happy.

What do you all think? Is there a such thing as bisexuality? if a man is a bottom with another man but only dates wonen, is he gay or does he just like it in the butt once in a while? Leave comments, discuss, debate. i want to know your thoughts!

Again, Love you guys! Deuces!